by Wonder how to find the right gift for your special someone? Good, that shows you care about them! In fact, presents are a big part of non-verbal communication in a relationship. Therefore, taking your time to consider the options, should not be underestimated if she or he is important to you…
Here are the KEY FACTORS to take into account when choosing a present for your love interest:
- How far along you are in a relationship – the longer you’ve been with someone, the more personal the gift can be. You can order a customized present or make one yourself. The same applies to practical gifts too – they are appropriate only when you’ve already been with someone for a considerable amount of time, otherwise they may not be perceived well.
- What message you want the gift to convey – the stronger your feelings and most importantly, the more serious your intentions are, the more romantic or lasting the present could be. Think hearts, love poems, evergreen plants, a trip for two, or why not a living pet?
- Their personal preferences – picking a gift that they would like and appreciate, shows you know them, understand their interests and respect their taste. And, above all, you’ve made an effort to find the right present! If they’ve stated they don’t need/ want anything, why not give them a charity gift instead? You could pick a cause and give them a greeting card, stating the donation you’ve made. Or, you can buy them a charity voucher they can assign themselves. Nowadays, many non-profit organizations offer similar options on their websites, that can inspire you to pick precisely this kind of present!
Being conscious of what gifts represent in a relationship is important, indeed, as your choice could have a lasting impact. However, your personality should also be reflected in your selection. And if the other person cares about you too, they would value your very own personal touch just as much!
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